Recently I found out someone who took a course with me was about to teach a course of his own using the same exercises and topic. He set the fee at the same exact rate, and the course was the same exact amount of weeks.
Honestly, I have no idea what to think about this kind of thing.
It’s a complete honor to have someone feel the exercises I’m offering are so good they want to use them.
The Work is also free. Everything of true value is accessible to anyone and everyone. No course is required for freedom. No course is required for human peace.
What is my little thought, the thing that feels weird about it, where I thought I needed to say something.….but what?
I knew what to do first.
Write down my brainstorm of thoughts, especially the stressful ones.
- I worked my ass off, through suffering, and through recovery, to discover these exercises–he should think up his own work instead of copying mine.
- He’s doing better than me, he’s delivering my work to many people, he’s more successful, he’s winning
- I have personal transformation, and so much to offer, yet other people do it more extensively and with more confidence
- He shouldn’t have signed up for my course just to get all the curriculum (he was deceptive)
- I need him, and the world, to honor and respect and include me instead of leaving me out
- He is sneaky, stealing from me, he used me
- I’m not good enough, I’m not charismatic enough, I’ve got some kind of problem reaching others (he doesn’t)
Without my troubled thoughts of scarcity and competition, I’d be open, curious, excited, noticing what my passions are.
I’d also remember how much I’ve gleaned from others I’ve studied–in fact, maybe everything I ever create a curriculum around is a collection of information from others. Nothing’s actually original.
Turning it all around:
I am appreciated, by me for the work I love to do, and by this man who loved my curriculum. He shouldn’t think up his own work, he should copy mine (it’s that good)! I’m doing just fine, sharing, working with people, enjoying this thing I call “work” immensely.
Oh lordy.
Who would you be without your fear of losing, of comparison, or of having others steal your material?
Happy.
If you’d like to join a small group for six Wednesday mornings from 9-10:30 am, we’ll be taking a sweet dive into some of these strange stressful concepts that arise within when it comes to others.
We start tomorrow!
Module Three: Fear, Loss, and Dependency–Questioning the Pain of Avoiding the Future, or Resenting the Past
Read about the course HERE and register, too (only $297). I’d love you to join me.
Much love,
Grace