February 2015 – Page 2 – The Work of Byron Katie with Grace

February 18, 2015

She Shouldn’t Say That To Me!

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So now that I’m done with the recent in-person retreat Eating Peace and getting registrations for the upcoming 3 month online program with the same title….

….I’m aware that next Monday, only five days away….

….a teleclass begins on PARENTING.

Did you hear the shark-lurking-in-the-water sound?

Duhn-duhn-duhn-duhn.

Oh man.

Beliefs about parenting, other people’s parenting, caring for young humans, caring about actually grown up kids, judging how our parents parented….

….is intense, to put it mildly.

I would say hands down, my kids provided the most worksheets on situations where I “lost” my temper than any other situations in my life for the past ten years.

Especially my amazing daughter.

The first time I wrote a worksheet on her, I was ashamed to read it to the person facilitating me.

How could a mother be so mean, babyish, angry, and vengeful?!

My rage was intense.

And this kid was only 8 years old at the time.

She shouldn’t talk back, she shouldn’t boss me, I need her to listen (code word for listen is do-what-I-say I later realized), I want her to respect me, she is rude, ungrateful, loud, irritating, ridiculous, outrageous.

It was weird how mad I could get.

She should clean up her room, wash her dishes.

Even now I will scan the room when I enter the house, see her boots and backpack lying on the chair, and immediately think….

….”WHAT?! She should put those away in her room!”

Like it’s such a shock.

Over and over again it seemed, I questioned and entered the incredible open world of who I would be without my thoughts about my children….

….so stressful, so ingrained, so deep.

So the other day, I told my daughter “you should listen to my new podcast—that’s your DAD doing the intro and outro you know—and it’s only five minutes kinda like your you-tuber friends….I’d like to know what you think!”

She took one look at the cover art, two babies (thank you to the photographer’s son, the laughing baby on the left, who gave the thumbs-up for using the photo).

She said “I hate babies” and marched out of the room.

Who would I be without the belief she should be more respectful, or listen to my genius work (ha) or even care?

Wow.

I’d actually be laughing.

She’s funny! And spicy!

“How can you have rules and still stay out of your children’s business? Drop the rules and find out! You’ll find that your children, on their own, will live every rule you’ve ever taught them, and some of them you may not like. They are a perfect reflection of you. They turned out to be you…..Ultimately you don’t have any control over your children. You don’t have any control over anything. When you think you do, and you see that you don’t, the effect is depression.” ~ Byron Katie

I turn the thoughts around that I have about my kids, even today: she should NOT want to listen to me talk, she shouldn’t like babies, she shouldn’t clean up, I should clean up (especially my thoughts), he should lose things all the time, he should be late, she should love what she loves, I should quit being noisy in my head about their noise.

I am actually really glad she doesn’t like babies right now….she’s seventeen.

There are benefits.

I love she’s outspoken and strong. She refuses to say the Pledge of Allegiance in school, because she doesn’t agree with it.

She’s finding her way.

When I was her age, I was smiling all the time, trying to be nice, rebellious but never TOO angry or upset, and full of very conflicted feelings.

And developing a raging eating disorder.

My daughter is really quite happy with food.

That same night after the “I hate babies” comment, she came into my room before going to bed….

…..and gave me a big hug and kiss goodnight, and said “I love you, mom”.

What a cutie.

To join the 8 week teleclass where we’ll identify our most painful thoughts about our kid(s) and do The Work on them, starting on Monday at 10 am Pacific Time….click HERE.

You do The Work, and watch your kid change (or not). Give yourself some peace.

I’d love to have you with us!

Love, Grace

February 18, 2015

Eating Peace – Distorted Thinking, Distorted Eating

Whenever I start a new program, even if I’ve taught it many times before, I review the whole thing and often make little changes or notes.

Yesterday I was contemplating the way the Mind works when it comes to food and eating troubles as I reviewed the Eating Peace presentations, twelve 90 minute lectures with slides.

Beliefs, thoughts and views of the world sure do affect our lives in a deep way, including the way we eat.

Some of its conscious, some not so much.

The mind is quite remarkable, so busy, full, quick, and often–mistaken!

That Mind.

It’ll get things all twisted up and mixed around so you don’t know what’s up or down anymore.

It’s called making up stories based on past imprints or situations….worrying….anticipation….regret.

In the world of psychology, one term for the way thinking gets whacky when it comes to food (and other stressful stories) is….

….distorted thinking.

I talk today in this video about some of the ways we get distorted thinking when it comes to food….

….and the REAL origin or view of distortion (its not really about food).

I love how food is a reflection of how you feel about life.

Click here to listen, and leave a comment for me on my website, or on youtube after you watch–I love reading your impressions and feedback, and answering your questions.

Lots of peace,

Grace

P.S. Click HERE to read all about Eating Peace, the upcoming Online and Live Telecourse Program from February 22-May 31, 2015. Jam-packed with information and tools for healing the relationship with food, and with life.

full one-time payment

1st payment for 3-payment plan (now, 3/22 & 4/22)

Once you register, I’ll personally send you all the information you’ll need via email.

Much love,

Grace

February 17, 2015

I Didn’t Say No And It Got Me A No

Can you say no when you mean no? If you don't you might feel worse later. — Can you say no when you mean no? If you don’t you might feel worse later.

Last week I had a one-time consultation call with a company to talk about a website upgrade.

I had taken a little free course the company offered to review some tweaks I was interested in adding to my own website.

The consult call was scheduled for one hour, and I knew it was basically a meeting to see if their service was right for me, and could potentially involve…..

…..sales!

As in, someone pitching me their thing.

Maybe this service would help save me a bunch of time making all the changes myself.

I had many technical questions.

But we had to wait to get to those because when the person called at the appointed hour, he asked me questions like “how would it feel if you had your website totally upgraded and handled?” and “if you could wave a magic wand, what would you want your website to do?”

Well, I already know I’ll feel satisfied and pleased when these changes are made.

DUH.

I wasn’t in a position of needing to be convinced about fixing my website. I love beautiful websites, I enjoy being creative with technology, I like all the new stuff being invented constantly.

I know people get confused about where to find stuff on mine.

We hung up, not complete yet with the conversation because I had a few more questions. We made an appointment to continue the following day.

Which is when a moment arrived.

Yes. A situation.

After getting a lot of my questions answered….I realized his service wasn’t a good deal for me.

I said “thank you for all your information, and I’m not going to sign up with you right now.”

He said “WHAT? I’m really concerned! You mean you’re going to keep sitting there without making any progress on your website, or your business?”

Wait. Was he insulting me?

Fume.

He’s concerned?

I suddenly felt like I was running off the car dealership lot with the car salesman saying “I’m concerned, I’m really concerned!” as I DON’T buy a car.

What a faker!

Sigh. I had my concept for inquiry.

“He wouldn’t take no for an answer.”

Is that true?

Well, no. He backed off, he wasn’t happy, he applied all the pressure he could, he repeated how terrible this would be if I said no….

….but then he said I could call him again any time if I changed my mind.

How did I react when I began to believe he wouldn’t take no for an answer?

Angry. I could feel the heat rise from inside my gut, up my throat, into my face. I looked at my watch, I wanted to hang up. I felt like I was talking to an enemy on the phone.

Bummer.

I imagined writing him an email pointing out what a jerk he was and how he came across all sweet and supportive at the beginning but that was fake.

Who would I be without the belief that he wouldn’t take no for an answer?

Deep breath. I’d relax. I’d notice how there are no emergencies. I’m safe in this moment, all is well.

I would tell him there are several things that don’t serve my needs about their services.

I’d hang up if I needed to. I don’t have to stay in the conversation.

I turned the thought around: he would take no for an answer.

Well, first of all, he’s just a man on the phone in another time zone. How could he possibly NOT take no for an answer?

What am I even talking about?

Must I demand that everyone be “nice” and easy-going, cordial, detached and never pressuring me?

How about another turnaround: I wouldn’t take no for an answer.

I didn’t stop him 5 minutes into the original conversation and say “I don’t really want to have a coaching/sales conversation, I basically have a few technical questions to run by you, then I can decide yes/no for this website service thing, ok?”

I didn’t interrupt him when I thought the initial conversation was winding and dragging in other directions.

Who wasted everyone’s time?

Me.

He was doing his job. He probably had a script, and was following what he knew to do.

I was the one who didn’t say no the minute I felt a “no”.

This is not a new experience. I’ve done this before, hoping that if I say “yes” it will be easy, smooth, non-confrontive, and I’ll avoid someone being disappointed or wanting to pressure me further.

I wouldn’t take no for an answer, from myself, or from him.

Yikes, so true.

I wind up often thinking “yes” is better than “no”. I want to dream of yes, not no. I like the idea of yes, yes, yes. It sounds fun, thrilling, like flying, or hang-it-all-do-whatever-you-want!

YES! YES!

But, wait. No is good, too, on planet earth, you say?

Wow.

What if I celebrated NO just as much as YES and welcomed the deep, powerful, empty, unknown consequences of NO.

“There was an exhausted woodcutter who kept wasting time and energy chopping wood with a blunt ax because he did not have the time, he said, to stop and sharpen the blade.” ~ Anthony DeMello

In those recent exchanges, where I judged Mr. Website Coach Salesman as salesy and pressuring me and insulting me….

….and all those other times I have overlooked saying “no” and thought of someone as going on and on, or being rude, or being too intense….

….hasn’t that been just like chopping wood with a blunt ax?

Saying no is much more efficient. It only takes one or two strokes, and the tree is down.

Then, you get to move on to the next thing.

Love, Grace

February 16, 2015

What Is The Shape Of Love?

Can you catch love, the spirit of life, or joy in a jar?

Today appears to be an ordinary day. Maybe a holiday Monday for people in the US.

Nothing super supreme special, though.

Not “Valentine’s Day” or a special love day…that’s over now.

But what if it could be?

What if it was a wildly beautiful love celebration day?

For yourself.

What happens when you don’t really love yourself though?

What’s up with that?

Often, I found different moments that created lack of love in the moment….and they looked like this:

You think you made a mistake. You remember a painful situation.

You compare yourself with others.

The thought runs through your mind that this day isn’t exciting enough, fun enough, loving enough, sweet or kind or peaceful enough.

Something’s just plain Not Enough.

You feel guilty for saying something harmful to somebody. You hurt someone.

Maybe you don’t feel you’ve done a good job.

You think you aren’t good enough, big enough, strong enough.

You haven’t gotten there yet, you judge yourself as wrong.

Owwie.

It definitely hurts to not enjoy your own company, to not feel satisfied in this moment right now, with you.

Why not today take a little break from this type of thinking today, just as an experiment?

Can you forgive yourself today for not doing it right? Or not getting it yet? For being less than perfect?

Who would you be without the belief that something’s missing in you, or wrong with you, or off, or bad, or not enough?

I found…..I feel very quiet, without these voices running off at the mouth.

I don’t have to do anything special.

Stillness is here….very, very still.

“By being nothing you are everything. By wanting nothing you are eternally full of grace…

…Tell me, what is the shape of Love? How much does Joy weigh when held in the palm of your hand? Can you catch the Spirit of Life in a jar?” ~ Adyashanti in My Secret Is Silence

Today, what if you acted like someone who couldn’t believe what’s going on in your life right now is BAD?

Someone who couldn’t think the thought “I’m a loser” or “I’m doomed” or some more mild version of the same?

Happy This Day to you. Happy every day to you.

Nothing special. Nothing.

Happy day. Happy.

You.

Love, Grace

February 14, 2015

Eating Peace Online Home Study Registration Open Today

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When I was first putting together this very thorough Eating Peace Online Program I never planned for open enrollment day to start on Valentine’s Day.

But here it is! And I love it!

Because this program celebrates self-love and self-acceptance at the deepest level.

A romance with YOU.

Caring for how you eat and take in the world in the form of food, and understanding your impulses, your actions, and how you’ve gotten to where you are today….

….and what it takes to un-ravel yourself from the battle with eating….

….is maybe one of the most amazing things you could ever do.

Without dieting, forcing any meal plans, demanding torturous exercise, or bossing yourself around.

The program begins next week on February 22, 2015.

This is a program very full of information I found in my years of recovery and study of weird or off-balance eating, and working with others along the way.

Off-balance eating comes out of off-balance thinking, feeling and being.

The program brings powerful awareness to eating as a spiritual path.

Each week, you’ll receive a new link to a webinar presentation on Sunday morning Pacific time.

You can listen immediately, or set aside another 90 minutes in the following days to watch and listen.

Then we all get online together on Wednesdays (you pick your best time–or both times–and come live to the call to do inquiry together at either 9 am or 5:15 pm Pacific Time).

After every three weeks, we’ll take a one-week break to digest, assimilate, re-watch some of the material, let it sink it….before starting the next module.

To read more about the program, the modules, what will be covered and greater detail….click HERE.

To enroll in the program with a complete one-time payment of $997, click this button.

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For a payment plan of three monthly payments of $367, click here…..and you’re in! (We’ll invoice you for the other two payments monthly on the 22nd of March and April):

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Once you register, I’ll personally send you all the information you’ll need via email. And as I said, we’ll begin on February 22nd!

It’s my great pleasure to be of service in this way to help you heal your life with food. I think every single person who opens to this approach to healing their relationship with food can change not only their eating, but their other relationships, and their whole lives.

When you heal your life with food, you create more peace everywhere!

I can’t wait to work with you in the months ahead.

And if it’s not for you, not to worry. I’ve got you covered in more videos weekly on Wednesdays, my gift. Stay tuned.

Much love, Grace

P.S. Registration is open all week, until 9 pm Pacific Time on Saturday, February 21st.

February 13, 2015

Anniversary Day Story Change

Animals don't know what day it is--who would YOU be if you didn't know? — Animals don’t know what day it is–who would YOU be if you didn’t know?

Did you know that on this day, Friday the 13th, it’s estimated by the Stress Management Center and Phobia Institute that 17 to 21 million people in the United States are kinda paranoid?

It’s apparently the most feared day and date in history.

In Finland, National Accident Day is always Friday the 13th, helping to remind people to be careful. And in the Netherlands, statistics show that fewer accidents happen on Friday the 13th because everyone’s being hyper alert.

A famous 1972 accident happened on Friday the 13th: a plane crashed in the Andes. Some of the survivors, stuck in the snow but still alive, are famous for surviving because they ate some of the dead passengers.

I remember that from when I was a kid. Ew.

Wow, OMG! Friday the 13th!

Don’t you love spooky stories?

And….sometimes spooky stories are very, very spooky. As in, they are truly alarming.

But only if you believe them to be true.

So let’s inquire.

What’s creepy about a date in your life, what gives you the heebie-jeebies about an anniversary you always remember?

(My mom says heebie-jeebies).

Have you lost something or someone? Did something difficult happen? When you think about it, are you afraid of getting hurt again, emotionally or physically, or of death?

After I first got divorced, when 11/11 came along, I felt sad.

That used to be a powerful date…but now….it’s a sad date!

How do you react when you feel forgotten, lost, afraid, hurt, or terrified and you remember it because of the date?

When I have felt this way, and believed my worst fears were true, I’ve kept myself really tiny and small, I’ve stayed home, I’ve avoided speaking to people, I’ve had a hard time sleeping.

Memories crashed through my head.

But with self-inquiry, you can imagine who you’d be without your thoughts!

For some strange reason, when I was a kid I loved Friday the 13th and would say “this is a GOOD luck day!”

I’d feel kind of impish.

So without my fearful story about a date, perhaps I’d be playful and impish again!

If you didn’t have a reference for day, time, numbers, meanings….

….who would you be?

Who would be without your belief in anniversary dates, frightening days, haunted times?

For me, without the belief that 11/11 means “marriage that broke apart” I realize that 11/11 is INCREDIBLE.

I love 11! Maybe it came first, before I chose it for a marriage event in 1990 a long time ago. Ha!

I still love 11/11!

What if you turned your memory-associated difficult sad dates around to the opposite instead?

Instead of the memory of that date being all-awful…could it be that now, in this moment, it’s only a memory?

It doesn’t mean you’ll forget about that past event, or person, or place, or time….

….it just doesn’t have to be 100% tragedy and drama. It doesn’t have to FEEL bad.

It could even be a gift, a joyful moment, a hat-tip to that vision, an awareness of what is here now that is new, different, an invitation, a possibility.

It could happen, if you inquire.

“So reality and the story never match; reality’s always kinder….You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer.” ~ Byron Katie

Love, Grace

February 13, 2015

Eating Peace: Healing Eating Wars With Mind, Feelings, Body, Spirit

If you got the chance to watch my webinar on many in’s and out’s of healing eating troubles, thank you.

I was going through the webinar the other day and realized at the end, I talk about my upcoming online Eating Peace 3 month program….and the dates are for last autumn.

I did teach the course last autumn!

But now….it’s February!

And many of you have written me to ask….well, heck, are you teaching the online class again soon and how do I sign up?

That would be YES.

Registration actually opens tomorrow, on Valentine’s Day. I’ll send a quick, short email with details in the morning with how to register.

But such a comprehensive program may not be right for you, right now. That’s OK. It’s a pretty intensive, full program, with weekly webinars and additional weekly live calls for questioning stressful thoughts using The Work of Byron Katie. There’s only one week off between each module and we go all the way until the very end of May!

Click through to my website to read all the details about the entire program and how it works right HERE….

….but meanwhile….

….here’s a video where I expand on the areas I studied, all of which came together in a big interconnected way for healing:

Mind, Feelings, Body and Spirit.

In the video in each area, I give you a really vital key you can use for changing your relationship with food and eating.

Start to use these tools and principles.

As you change your inner world when it comes to food and eating, you help change the experience of eating from agony to joy.

When you feel the joy of being alive, having a body, and eating, you spread the joy just by being yourself.

Then more and more people can become free from self-condemnation when it comes to food, or compulsion with food, or terrible violent thoughts and behaviors with food.

“There is something better than endlessly pushing the boulder of obsession up the mountain: putting it down. And if you are willing to refrain from dieting and needing an instant solution, and if you want to use your relationship with food as the unexpected path, you will discover that God has been here all along….In each moment of kindness you lavish upon your breaking heart or the size of your thighs, with each breath you take–God has been here. She is you.” ~ Geneen Roth

Enjoy! And leave a comment, I love to hear how these ideas work in your life:

February 12, 2015

Stress: A Built-In Friendly Alarm Clock To Awakening

Have you heard my new little podcast episodes (only 4-6 minutes each) Peace Talk on itunes….this week its on LOVE and when it goes wrong. Subscribe and submit a review!

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Yowser, I am very excited today.

Have you ever been super nervous crazy excited about something about to happen, and you LIKE the thing about to happen, but it’s almost too exciting?

This may sound a little low-key to you (I am the one jumping up and down)….

….but I have a new Eating Peace online class opening up for registration on Saturday morning….

….and the very same day, I’m leaving to go away with my sweetheart for two nights to a surprise destination (husband made the reservations)!

Valentine’s Day!!!

Here’s the funniest thing.

When I was getting married (to current husband–2nd marriage) only 2-1/2 years ago, my skin on my hands started getting flakey in the few weeks before.

Then they started pealing.

Like a strange sort of eczema only on my hands. I kept putting lotion all over them, I made sure not to drink any caffeine or anything dehydrating, and was kinda wondering what was going on.

Summer shedding of skin?

Then my mom caught a glimpse of them and said, “oh, your getting your stress reaction you’ve always gotten since you were young, remember?”

Oh!

Weird. I completely forgot.

THIS HAS HAPPENED BEFORE.

How incredibly odd to forget such a thing. The mind is very good at blanking out.

And I’m pretty interested in conscious awareness of myself and all my actions!

This reminded me that energy racing through the body has its own way, and the mind is not always aware (your mind might like to

think it is…..but, not so much).

For me, a very, very introverted person by nature, having all the attention of a wedding was pretty wild. Awesome, but wild.

Same with this coming weekend with a course and a surprise vacation happening.

But as I sit here right now, writing….

….who would I be without the belief that something around the corner, where I’ll have attention directed towards me and I’ll need to respond and stay engaged….is stressful?

Who would I be without the belief that the energy I feel inside is stressy?

What if it was gentle, calm, being connected with others, answering peoples’ questions, responding to emails and registrations, driving off to spend time with my best friend and husband, enjoying close conversation, relaxing and feeling anticipation all at the same time?

Gosh. I don’t know if I can feel truly relaxed in this situation.

But what would it be like without THAT thought?

Ahhhhh.

Suddenly I get it.

I could let my whole body get floppy. My shoulders drop, I stretch my legs out while writing here, with my laptop on my thighs.

I take a very deep, long breath.

Tick, tock, slow, down.

Right now is now. Empty room. Space, quiet.

Even tomorrow, and the next day, when activity is happening and computers, emails, packing, driving, busy-ness are all occurring….

….there is still quiet space.

“That’s the purpose of stress. It’s a friend. It’s an alarm clock, built in to let you know that it’s time to do The Work. You’ve simply lost the awareness that you’re free. So you investigate, and you return to what you are. This is what’s waiting to be recognized, what is always real.” ~ Byron Katie

Love, Grace

February 11, 2015

A Day In Heaven With Technological Difficulties

Technology hell or heaven? Question your thinking and see.

Day before yesterday I spent a lot of time recording a video for Eating Peace and finishing my Peace Talk podcast episodes for the week on romantic love.

The first video got entirely deleted after there wasn’t any more “start up disk” space, and I spent an hour deleting old photos, movie clips and audio files….

….and apparently also, the video I had just created.

Then the Peace Talk podcast got trimmed the wrong way.

As in, I was deleting the very end silent space, I thought, but instead deleted the entire podcast and got left with…..the space.

Then my battery on my computer wouldn’t charge.

Down to the apple store for what turned out to be a new battery (they are always so nice at the apple store).

Back home.

Battery still won’t charge.

Back to the apple store for a new charger now, turns out.

Everything new! Yippee!

Do it over again!

Ha ha.

But I will say, this might be something in the past I’d have a hissy fit about.

However, I noticed I had intentionally arranged no clients (it was the day after retreat) and a mid-afternoon massage.

I pretty much futzed with technology until the massage. Then re-did everything I did earlier all over again AFTER the massage.

Who would I be without the thought that the technology situation was a “disaster” and “taking waaaaaaaay toooooooo long!” and even something to be upset about?

Noticing how I had time for everything.

I enjoyed waiting (twice) in the apple store working on emails and writing and hearing the hum of many voices all around, wearing my yoga pants and slippers back and forth between house, car, parking lot and store.

Stressed? Not really.

I heard the voice complaining about what a waste of time, blah blah, but it was like the voice was in a cave in the back yard, quite a distance away. I just couldn’t believe it was true.

Wow.

When I finished the video (no retakes! just one take!) it uploaded in record speed to youtube and just went out to all the Eating Peace subscribers.

So how was it a good thing that I had a day of non-stop technical details?

No idea.

But it sure was fun not having a heart attack about it. Kind of amazing, I thoroughly enjoyed myself.

Who knew.

“Praise this day–and with each breath you take be filled with the golden arc of love which announces the ending of your argument with God. Praise this day simply because it exists and sit down now in the warm skin of your own lap; for you are home and it is time to rest in the merciful light of your own eyes.” ~ Adyashanti

Yeah. Even on a day with broken batteries, chargers, vanishing files, deleted videos, time ticking by, deleted podcasts.

If I had run out of gas, or my car had broken down on the road or something, I might have been in heaven.

Except I think I already was.

Love, Grace

February 11, 2015

Eating Peace – Four Areas To Look When It Comes To Troubled Eating

In the last 3 or 4 years I’ve had a strange and completely unplanned phase of gathering all the teachings I ever received around healing eating troubles….

….and categorizing them into four broad and spacious areas.

I did this because people asked me for help.

I wasn’t shy about saying I had healed from a raging eating disorder and whacked thinking about food.

But I also sometimes felt very reluctant to help.

It’s so intense! It took so long! All those healers, therapists, retreats, workshops, books, and degrees!

How could I ever put into words what I’ve learned about having a fabulous relationship with food?

But one day, I started.

I sat very quietly, considering what was the “answer” to this difficult problem with food, when there is too much, or not enough, and never any deep satisfaction?

I had worked with many clients over time, young women from teens to college students….and then older women all the way to age 80.

Then I had a man come for help with food and eating, and another.

I had lots of experience working with these people one-on-one, I had brought in self-inquiry especially in the form of The Work of Byron Katie to question what we thought was true in the moments we want to reach for food even though we’re not hungry.

And something started coming together to make this easier, more organized, more helpful.

The four broad areas I began to think about (and feel about) became the perfect areas for awareness of what really worked, and what didn’t.

Mind, Feelings, Body, Spirit.

It was so exciting to see what fit where along my journey, what was most important for me to learn, what really made a powerful difference.

Today in this fairly short video, I talk about this part of my freedom journey around food, eating and body….

….where I feel like after several decades of “work” on finding peace around food, I was drawn to take a look-see back over all the path I took, pick the very best of it all, the cream of the crop of teachings, and offer this to others who want to heal their relationship with food, too.

Because I know, every person who returns to joy and innocence with food has access to pleasure, joy, love and simplicity, not just around eating….

….but around everything else in their lives!

Seriously, it’s hard to believe, but the relationship with food, eating and the body really was an avenue into the deepest spirit within me.

If you change the way you experience food, you’ll change the way you experience your entire life.

Click below to watch today’s video.

Then, in a few days, I’ll send a video where I talk about the highlights I found in each area….

….Mind, Feelings, Body, and Spirit….

….that were the MOST important to learn to make peace with eating.

You can use them to help you heal the way you eat and the way you relate to food, or your size.

If I could do it, you can too.

Much love, Grace