Two people wrote to me yesterday and asked if they could get the masterclass replay Ten Barriers to The Work and How To Dissolve Them. Since I got asked twice, out it goes. Replay is now enabled.
So speaking of those barriers (will she ever stop?) I was thinking about the Big Kahuna Number One Barrier again yesterday.
Um. Yes. (After all this talk of not doing The Work on yourself).
Me.
That’s exactly who I filled out my Judge Your Neighbor worksheet on, even though we were invited to NOT fill it out on ourselves and instead consider someone else we might not have forgiven yet.
Me.
But here’s what I remember happened that amazing and horribly difficult weekend. I realized something profoundly important, even though I was “working” on myself.
That I might not be the awful monster I thought I was.
It was a huge beginning to an incredible journey of waking up out of a zombie trance of self-criticism.
So, can I really know it’s difficult or wrong, or even a barrier, to do The Work on oneself?
No.
If you’re one of the people who feels deeply compelled to question thoughts that bring you suffering about yourself, you might enjoy this latest Peace Talk Episode 120.
Even though I spoke on Peace Talk last time about doing The Work on yourself and what to do instead, or how to take it a bit deeper, in this episode I share what happened when I did The Work on myself, anyway.
During that first dreadful weekend workshop, I hardly spoke, I gave no one any eye contact, I never raised my hand (wouldn’t have dreamt of it), felt physically like death warmed over, hated what I wrote on that worksheet…..
…..but something shifted inside of me that was the beginning of the end of the pain…..
…..even though my worksheet appeared to be all about me.
So even though I’ve gone on and on about Barrier #1 to deepening The Work being the way we want to do it on ourselves at first…..
…..there’s nowhere you can’t go with The Work and nothing that will prevent you from freedom, if you answer the questions.
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“Thinking that people are supposed to do or be anything other than what they are is like saying that the tree over there should be the sky. I investigated that and found freedom.” ~ Byron Katie in I Need Your Love–Is That True?
This goes for ourselves, too. Thinking WE are supposed to do or be anything other than what we are is like saying something cray cray.
Investigate it.
Much love,
Grace